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A more accessible, supportive and
down-to-earth approach
Built on decades of experience in Nursing, Midwifery and perinatal wellbeing, The Perinatal Peace Project was created to make specialist emotional support more accessible for women during pregnancy and early motherhood.
My approach is gentle, practical and free from judgement – without long waiting lists, unnecessary complexity or endless cycles of therapy.
As a specialist Perinatal Hypnotherapist my blended approaches of hypnotherapy, mindfulness, meditation and nervous system regulation techniques-all help you move away from survival mode and towards greater calm, confidence and emotional balance.


Meet the founder of
The Perinatal Peace Project
Based in my home area of Nuneaton, Warwickshire, the project supports women across Coventry, Warwickshire and surrounding areas… and further afield via online support.
I am Bernie Allport, a wife, mother of two wonderful adult children, nanna and hypnotherapist, with a lifelong career in Nursing, Midwifery and perinatal emotional wellbeing.
Alongside my professional experience, I also have lived experience of birth trauma and injury. As my own training, knowledge and understanding grew, I realised just how many women are left feeling unheard, unsupported and unsure where to turn.
I founded The Perinatal Peace Project to help bridge that gap… offering you compassionate, personalised support as you gradually move away from fear, overwhelm and unresolved trauma towards greater peace, confidence and emotional balance.
My Orthopaedic (ONC) and General Nursing (RGN) training grounded me in good, basic, holistic care – the importance of which has remained with me at every career direction.
Ironically, I was disappointed to miss out on an Obstetrics placement during my nursing training. So, being a little nosey and very determined, I decided to pursue full Midwifery training instead… and happily remained there until my recent retirement.
Over the years, I worked across every area of Midwifery, spending my final 16 years as a Caseload Midwife, where I developed a particular passion for birth preparation and supporting women through homebirth.
It was during this time that funding opportunities introduced me to hypnosis relaxation for birth, and I was completely hooked!

My own hypnobirthing business, Time 4 Birth, gave me the privilege of supporting couples as they prepared for calmer, more confident births. Along the way, I became increasingly aware of how previous trauma often shaped fear, decision-making and emotional wellbeing during pregnancy and birth.
This inspired me to train in the TBR (Traumatic Birth Recovery) 3-Step Rewind approach, before further expanding my knowledge during the Covid pandemic with a Certificate in Perinatal Emotional Wellbeing, alongside additional training in hypnotherapy, mindfulness and meditation.
Completing my Level 3 Diploma in Hypnotherapy (TBR 3-Step Rewind & Perinatal Hypnotherapy), fully accredited by Think Tree, directs me to share the offerings of The Perinatal Peace Project here today:
I am also a lifelong member of the Royal College of Midwives (RCM).
Above all, I believe that nervous system regulation sets the foundation for good parenting, which in turn creates families who cope and support each other when life throws curved balls.
This belief is rooted not only in my professional life, but also in the things that bring balance and joy to my own time with my extended family, dancing and dance holidays, Nordic walking, motorhoming, volunteering within a hospital wellbeing service and maintaining my own meditative mindfulness practices to help keep life grounded and balanced.
Who I support
Wherever you are on your perinatal journey, you don’t
have to navigate it alone. Whether you’re:
…you’re welcome here.
I support women across Coventry, Warwickshire and the surrounding areas, as well as clients anywhere who would like to work with me Live online. I also welcome Dads, grandmas, doulas and healthcare professionals, recognising that supporting others can leave its own emotional impact. Vicarious trauma deserves to be acknowledged with the same compassion and care.
At the heart of The Perinatal Peace Project is a simple belief:
You deserve to feel heard, supported and emotionally safe.
You don’t need a diagnosis, a label or to be in crisis before reaching out.
Sometimes, simply having the space to be listened to with compassion, understanding and without judgement is where healing begins.

How can I help?
I work with women experiencing a wide range of emotional and perinatal challenges, due to…
Previous
Unresolved birth trauma of physical or emotional nature.
Babyloss at any stage.
Current
Fertility/pre-conception anxieties; hyperemesis gravidarum (HG); difficult antenatal diagnoses or care pathways; antenatal anxiety and depression; new physical birth injury or emotional trauma; life-changing emergency birth experiences; NICU journeys and complex babycare; feeding traumas; relationship strain whilst adapting to new mother role.
Future
Fear surrounding induction or interventions.
Coping around breech birth decisions.
Planning for care pathways next pregnancy.
All work with you is 1-1 whether in person or live online.
Look out for group Perinatal Peace circles if you wish to connect with others in-person or explore your questions.
How…

Debrief
No longer recommended soon after an event… rather a “psychological first aid”. Clinical details matter… but so do your feelings and care experiences.
My “Debrief with relief” supports this style and validates with clarity after any perinatal event or procedure. It helps you prepare for clinical debrief with healthcare professionals, without re-traumatising.
One session.
Personalised recording to support your intentions.
Find your peace.

3 Step Rewind
A brief intervention of deep relaxation, allowing the sirens in your brain to switch off from the confusion, panic and fear that you may still be feeling after any traumatic event.
Over 3 separate sessions calm your nervous system, use your own language and project your focus forwards to lift the heavy weight of associated traumatic thoughts, feelings and behaviours.
Personalised recordings to support your progress between our appointments. Break your trauma pathway. Power up your long term memory with healthier messages.
Regain bonding, babycare confidence, family time, future plans.

Anxiety or depression
Your choice. Your feelings. This can be evident in Antenatal or Postnatal time.
Over 3 or 4 sessions – explore what keeps you in the loop of either anxious or depressive thoughts. Learn simple techniques to aid your return to peace and receive personalised recordings to aid your journey into peace.

Birth Preparation
With or without Pathway preferences creation (the old birth
plan). Hypnobirthing techniques attuned to trauma-sensitivity, hypnosis relaxation, involving your chosen advocate if you so desire.
My grounding and experience on this subject is vast – learn the biology of what happens throughout pregnancy, birth, feeding and postnatal and how you wish to apply this information over 2 – 4 sessions.

Relief of Pregnancy & Postnatal Symptoms
Learn how to use Hypnotherapy tools for ease of many common pregnancy and Postnatal ailments.
Pregnancy sickness; Hypertension; Restless legs; Lactation issues or feeding discomfort.
Learn how to stay calm and cope with heightened investigations of baby growth, placental function, blood anomalies & baby development etc.
One or 2 sessions. Customised MP3 recording for your practice.
Why?
Because you may feel:

If it feels like time to start the conversation
You are not alone.
The 2021 GOV.UK campaign “The first 1001 days” outlines this 2 year period from birth where babies achieve their most rapid emotional and physical wellbeing – neurologically charged by
good attachment.
Just at a point where you’re adjusting to motherhood, recovering from birth and finding yourself within a new identity!
Your struggle with intrusive thoughts, anxiety, guilt, fear, hypervigilance or emotional exhaustion is common among 20% of new parents – mostly all sleep-deprived! Largely under-reported due to shame, guilt, confusion and in a world of carefully curated “perfect parenting” on social media, it’s easy to believe you’re failing.
The truth is, you’re not failing.
You’re carrying more than anyone else can see. Perinatal anxiety, depression and birth trauma affect many families, yet so many women still question whether their experience was “serious enough” to deserve support… hence the 30% of new mums who describe parts of their pregnancy and birth journey as traumatic is also greatly under-reported and without validation.
You are not broken…
If your experiences continue to affect your thoughts, sleep, emotions or everyday life, then they matter.
Or perhaps you simply know something doesn’t feel right, but can’t quite find the words to explain it.
You do not need fixing.

Professional Integrity
Why my approach works
Your story is safe with me.
Living and working within close-knit local communities, I understand how important trust, discretion and confidentiality are.
My long career in the NHS has made it an easy transition for me to carve out safe standards and scope of practice, attuned to a Code of conduct and ethics, regular clinical supervision,
reflection and ongoing development, ensuring your safety and individual needs at all times.
You deserve
to feel heard.
Many women tell me they simply want someone who truly listens. Your experiences matter.
Before we think about moving forward, I want you to feel understood.
That’s why I offer a complimentary conversation so you can decide whether my approach feels right for you.
Accessible
support.
Everyone deserves access to compassionate emotional wellbeing support.
Alongside one-to-one sessions, community events and online support, I work with The Birth Republic C.I.C. to provide funded support for eligible women during pregnancy and the first two years after birth.
You lead the
journey.
There is no right or wrong place to begin. Whether you’ve experienced therapy before or this is your first step, we’ll work at your pace.
You choose what you share. You stay in control.
My role is simply to walk alongside you.
My Forward-focus approach embraces the Human Givens trauma and phobia philosophy, adapted within NLP (Neuro-linguistic programming) to provide Rewind therapy, originally for PTSD suffered by the returning military. This means that you do not need to revisit painful experiences in detail in order to achieve relief. It keeps your journey solution-focused, trauma-sensitive and led by you – no longer stuck in old thoughts and behaviours.
The answer is already within you.
The women I have worked with are surprised and empowered when they trust their own solutions, without suggestion or coercion to follow a particular action.
So often today, we lean towards external fixes rather than finding our very own inner guru.
Funding Support
If you are currently pregnant or have welcomed a baby within the last two years, you may also be eligible for funded support sessions through my collaboration with The Birth Republic C.I.C.
The National Lottery Community Fund has supported us for a second year, enabling specialist perinatal trauma, anxiety and depression support more accessible to the women who need it most.
You are not alone. Healing, peace and support are possible.

Perinatal Peace Circles
Check back here for news of local in-person groups.

Contact
The Perinatal Peace Project
Let’s start your conversation.
Please message your follow-up choice:
A 30 minute relaxed no-obligation Complimentary Zoom call
OR
Which topic you feel you would like support with.
Explore whether my approach feels right for you and how best for us to proceed.
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